Chapter 3 : Why Should I Get Help Anyway?

Bipolar is a mental illness. It is not like a cold that will go away.  It is not like a broken leg which will heal on its own.  Without the attention of a professional, your bipolar can and will get worse.

What happens to you will be unique.  There is no way of knowing if your condition will worsen quickly or at all.  But, research shows that those that do not seek help for their condition will find complications do exist for them and for their family members.

If you have bipolar, other conditions can make it even worse.  For example, if you are trying to deal with anxiety, you will have a hard time doing so because of bipolar.  In conditions where this is life threatening, for example if you are suffering from alcoholism, this can be a very serious problem.

If you can’t keep yourself off of alcohol, then your life may be in danger.  Not only will the alcohol cause problems for your health, but bipolar can make you think irrationally and you could put yourself in dangerous situations.  For this reason, seeking help is a must.

For some, the length of time between depressive symptoms and mania symptoms can be very short.  You could move from one symptom to the next quickly, leading to confusion and even health scares.  This rapid cycling in itself will cause you quite a bit of grief.

It can get even worse, too.  It is possible, believe it or not, to be in a state of depression as well as in mania at the same time.  When this happens, the end result is that your mind and emotions are completely wrapped in each other.  You are agitated and annoyed.  You are unable to sleep or eat.  You can’t get your thoughts to be organized.

Even worse, when this happens, people are more likely to think about suicide.  This can be very dangerous because people in this state of mind are not thinking rationally at all and can make the wrong decision.

Another problem is that of psychosis.  Bipolar symptoms that combine both mania and depression symptoms can lead to psychosis.  This is a very serious mental illness in which your personality is completely disorganized.  You are impaired with what is real and what is not.  You are hallucinating and you are delusional.  Even those that very strongly believe in things can end up making decisions the other way.

The Stress Goes Farther

Even beyond the physical risks that you place yourself under when you face bipolar, there are the just as devastating effects that it has on your relationships.

Many people with bipolar will have trouble holding onto relationships.  They may move from one person to the next quickly because of the mood swings that they deal with.  In addition, those that are suffering from bipolar often times make mistakes with dealing with others.  They simply are confused as to what the true emotion is supposed to be during any such situations.

In addition to this many with bipolar also have financial problems to boot.  They do not make the right decisions regarding money, spending on credit and making choices in products.  With this comes a number of problems from having to file bankruptcy to having to burden other family members with this problem. 

Sometimes, a mania episode can trigger a shopping spree.  Or a depressive episode can do the same just in the wrong way.

Still, one of the worst effects of bipolar is the way that people who have it treat themselves.  Many find that the only way to cope with what is happening to them is to isolate themselves from everyone.

This happens easily during depressive phases especially when an individual is having a severe episode.  Without the protection they need from a loved one, they can let their suicidal thoughts take control.  Because of this isolation, it is important for those that have loved ones in this condition to provide them with the care that they need to keep them safe.

As you can see, the complications of bipolar disorder can be quite severe.  Because many people that suffer from this condition simply do not realize that they have it, it can easily escalate and even put people in danger just doing the things that they do everyday.

The risk of driving a car, for example is very real.  If a mania or depressive mood change happens, the person can easily loose control of the car.  Even worse, they may make the wrong decisions in traffic, putting others at danger along with them.  This scenario can be played out with many other situations in your life too.

Getting help, though, can really improve your outlook on life and reduce your risks and complications significantly.

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